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Do I need a goal or system to succeed?

This Is a question you probably never ask yourself and yet you should because the answer makes a huge difference in terms of results. Especially for things you’d like to achieve in your life time.

Owning a successful business,getting a better body, writing a best-seller, raising wonderful children or winning a championship to name a few. For most of us the catalyst to those things begins by setting ourselves a specific actionable goal.

Over the years this was my chosen route until early 2010 when I became so bogged down with information I couldn’t see the wood for the trees and found myself in a state of overwhelm…...

 

What Changed?

Around this time I was due to begin studies for a Masters Degree and found myself thinking: how can I fit more information into my head when there’s already so much other stuff in there? The thing was I couldn’t dump any of it to make more room as it was all really important, relevant and very broad……

As a creative person who often stays up all night when the ideas are flowing: it was common for me to have multiple tasks on the go with none of them finished.Not because I lacked motivation or a strong work ethic, on the contrary in my case one idea would inform another until the mental snowball gathered such momentum I would end up working on a new task before finishing the original.

By sunrise I would have loads of new stuff for my already jam packed arsenal of information and ideas. Alas I had to file this on my laptop for another day because I still hadn’t finished the task I sat down to do. I knew something had to change and it did…..

During my Masters one of the first groups I attended was action learning.

Here we were expected to drill down “narrow and deep” academically speaking, to find a solution for work based problems being experienced by fellow cohorts. It was one of the most difficult yet most effective things I’d ever learned to do. At first I was driven mad by this method, as the student who always strayed from the “narrow and deep” rule I wanted to discuss things in a broader sense however,over time I learned to rein this in and this has since served me well.

These days I use it in almost everything I do. You probably know it as breaking things down into manageable chunks although if you’re a busy person used to multi tasking it’s very difficult to stay with one thing and complete the task in its entirety before moving on.Once I grasped: there was a much better way of doing things I never looked back. The change came once I’d understood: there are “goals” and there are “systems” and to achieve the goal you’ve got to follow a system.

So What’s The Difference?

The goal is the end game. The system is what it takes to get you there.

Here are some examples:

  • If you’re a writer: your goal is to write a book. Your system is the writing schedule that you follow each week.
  • Premiere league coach: your goal is to win the championship. Your system is what your team does at practice each day.
  • Long distance runner:your goal is to run a marathon. Your system is your training schedule each month.
  • Weight Loss Coach: your system is creating a lesson to motivate your client each week until they hit their target weight.
  • Entrepreneur:your goal is to build a million pound business. Your system is your sales and marketing process.

Now that I have my systems in place for “completion” I still sometimes work through the night however, I stay with one thing. I never sway from it until it’s completed and instead of having lots more things on my to do list I now have lots more things on my done list.

The great news is nothing is wasted. Everything I’d worked on before is now systematically going through the stages of completion and that feels wonderful.

Why You Need A System

You can have 20 great things on the go but with none of them finished you won’t earn a penny or enjoy the benefits of completion. Work on one thing, finish it then sell or implement it. Do that 19 more times and that’s a system that works over and over……….

My system for completion is not complicated: I use three post It notes

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  1. Is stuck to the free edge of my laptop and tells me: what topic/issue I’m working on.
  2. Is next to the first and says: don’t move off topic.
  3. Is stuck on my kettle and says: stand still – wait for the kettle to boil – don’t start anything else. Make a cuppa -now go back and continue with tonight’s topic.

    I work between my laptop and the kettle so these “post it” notes always have my eye!

You can apply these rules to many areas of your life and of course you can adapt your system to suit your needs. The post it example above is very simplistic to get the point across, nonetheless it’s a system that works for me. So much so I used it to make sure I stayed focused and on track when I created The Fast Class: A Bespoke One To One Accelerated Learning Experience – Designed for Beginners Delivered in One Day.

Long before I launched the Fast Class I made a lot of mistakes and had many set backs, all of them very costly and I wanted to make sure that if you’re just starting out on your online business journey you can avoid making the same mistakes as me. so I wrote about the mess I made and put it in a Free EBook called Simplify your Struggle. Get it today!

from my heart to yours

Dee x pink heart

 

Every journey begins with the first step. Please feel free to email me: info@deecoxon.com I’ll be here and happy to help pink heartpink heartpink heart

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